Prokhortseva Ekaterina Biography

Ekaterina Prokhortseva. Psychologist under the cover Text: Editorial photo: Personal archive who is a spiritual psychologist, what he works with and how to find himself the present - in a conversation with Ekaterina Prokhorseva. Buddhists have no person as a person, he is only a set of programs about yourself and about your profession. What is the profession “spiritual psychologist” and how is it related to the theme of the genus?

I’ll say one of the pioneers in this area. In general, in first education, I am a sociologist, studied in the specialty “Human Resources”. That is, in fact, I am a HR-driver, but in our disciplines there were a lot of psychology, sociology, and economics. Later I decided to enter the Moscow State University at the faculty of psychology, which in the end I did not graduate, I did not finish my studies for a year.

I did not like the fact that we were not given answers, how to treat patients: to make a diagnosis - please, but what to do next to help a person? .. Therefore, when I ended up in India, I went down there just for myself, I went through the spiritual university and received a coaching certificate confirming that you work with all the areas of life according to their system.

Here we were taught to specific practices. At first after training, I worked with groups, and yet I entered the third university to get a psychologist's diploma. Prior to this, I have already worked on Indian psychology for several years and advised at the group level, and in the learning process I learned how to work individually in these practices. When they asked me then what I was doing, I replied that they had not yet come up with such a profession, because the psychologist is limited by many rules.

What I did, I was not taught anywhere, in any classical university. This is all Indian knowledge. They often began to say to me that having reached a psychologist to a dead end, a person can solve his problem with me for one lesson and calm down. Today it is easier for me - there are many professions that do not even have a name. And I am one of those who are called a "psychologist under the cover." Although for a long time I had to not speak what I was doing.

What was the reason for distrust? Did you see something esoteric in this? Yes, esoteric or schizoterics. By the way, during my studies there was no concept of “esoteric”. Only later I heard about myself: "You are engaged in esoterics." And this is already a social stereotype-if you are associated with meditations, some kind of divine energies, chakras, then you are an esotericist.

Although I did absolutely applied, ordinary things to satisfy my request - to solve this or that problem. However, I always wanted to find a normal definition of my activity so that I was not called the "sorceress." And then, subsequently, the designation helped to find ...

Marketers. They introduced the concept of "spiritual psychologist." If a person needs supportive therapy, he goes to a classic psychologist. And if an expansion of consciousness or spiritual transformation, access to a new level of being is required, he turns to me, because I'm talking about something more - about past lives, spiritual energy. In such an empirically, everything came to the fact that I became a spiritual psychologist.

How do you feel about the idea that our family affects us, to the concept of fate? People, as a rule, have two extremes: some, fatalists screaming about fate and destininess of the path, while others, on the contrary, believe that each person is the master of their thoughts and creates his own reality. Both those and others are absolutely working systems, but there are even deeper knowledge.

In Hinduism, you can find the Vedas where this question is described. There is a cool series “God of the gods of Mahadev”, this is an epic of series, where, it seems to me, all Hindu wisdom is concentrated. One of the episodes very convincingly illustrates that both fate and will actually affect us. Our entire coordinate system is multidimensional: everything is affected at the same time.

For example, I take a feather in the room, throw it, it flies. What affects him? With an open window, the pen will take away with a certain speed in a certain direction. But the fact that it will not reach America is known for sure. Our life is the same. So, the clan is one of the bearing walls, oranges are not born from the aspen. At the same time, three children may appear in the same family, one of whom will become an oligarch, and two - alcoholics.

The reason for this is an indirect influence. Almost no one understands how the birth karma lays on this or that person. The consequences of the influence of the history of the genus is like snow on a branch - one of its pieces is naked, the other is all wrapped in snow. Moreover, throughout life, birth programs are disclosed gradually, not immediately. Something can open at the age of 20, something at 30, and something only in we call this influence "generic programs." But is there something that the more we dig, we learn about some kind of tribal program, the easier we will justify everything that is happening to us now?

In the first year of the medical university, students study all types of diseases and almost everyone finds in this process.Here the same effect acts. If you are sitting out of the blue, you just think about how to become better for you, and suddenly you decide to consider your family, then, of course, you will find in yourself all the ailments that you do not need for nothing. There will be a unpaired field.

I always start my seminar with the question: “What is wrong with you? Specifically now, at the moment. Of course, not all problems come from the family. It affects, this, of course, is not in all cases primarily. Previously, people in this sense were wiser: a woman was obliged to look at the quality of the male, from whom there would be offspring, no matter how rude it sounds, because the sore generation, his root cause is the irresponsible choice of a woman.

It is necessary to choose not out of "pity". Therefore, today there are so many examples of unsuccessful families? The family is still important in the system of values, what we rely on. Here we are talking about those very load -bearing walls. Now we seemed to have stopped transferring certain values ​​from generation to generation. And the union rests on three pillars - common values ​​with a partner, respect and long -playing plans.

Today, people began to choose each other as if due to the number of zeros in the account, real estate, and physical attraction. A lot of lies inside the steam, because people do not think globally about building family. It was as if we took other people's values ​​and tried on ourselves. Probably, there is not enough good old education, an understanding of what a family is, why a person needs it.

Now is the time of loneliness. Zamerov is not very interested in family, family values ​​- both in relation to their parents and in building their own cell of society. What do you think, what can this trend lead to? There is a theory that people in megacities more often abandon heterosexual relations due to social attitudes about overpopulation and a sense of hedonism, when life is perceived as a bright event every day.

Many people think that the child is “inconvenient” that life no longer belongs to you, that you will have to go to “we” and total service. This trend is associated with our technological progress. The person is controlled by two leading emotions: fear and laziness. If this is not a matter of survival, then he will always choose the opportunity to be lazy more. So, loneliness is just connected with laziness.

60 years ago, people converged because there was a male and female division of duties. Now many functions are replaced by paid services, the same “husband for an hour”, or food delivery, or clining. There is no division into male and female work in the metropolis. But still, evolution is a smart thing. When difficult times come, we return to socialization, family values. This is felt on the agenda of recent years.

Yes, because the whole world shakes. Not just in difficult times the most important family remained. When death threatens us, instinct works, the desire to reproduce, and continue the clan. And yet, is it necessary to deal with the current trend when people are in no hurry to marry or refuse it at all? The first wave of “non -me” about a year in the year of my birth, because the teenagers then found a period of destruction of the country.

The world has completely changed. During the formation of us as personalities, the surrounding reality showed that the family is not support and support at all. It is very difficult to survive when you are three, four, five, and not you alone. Therefore, this is more a sociological question, not psychological. I am always sad when I hear from women the requirements for a “ideal man” consisting of points.

What can she offer for each item?